Seven years-what a glaring number! Seeing the term "seven-year itch" might send chills down the spines of couples in this stage. Does the "seven-year itch" really exist? Yes, it's become an undeniable fact. I believe most couples hope to grow old together, but in the 21st century, this is increasingly rare. This is a social problem, but also a psychological one. If every couple could remember their wedding vows: "I don't care about anything about this man, I accept all his actions," the risk would be greatly reduced. When you're experiencing the "seven-year itch," women and men, you need to remember the following:
First: Women, you need to remember: 1. Although we've been married for seven years, we are still independent individuals. Neither of us is an appendage of the other. Children, husband, and work are all parts of your life. Don't put all your energy into one aspect. Find your value in this society. Only by engaging with society and people will you broaden your horizons and thinking, avoid being narrow-minded, and not be at a loss when trouble strikes. 2. After seven years of marriage, the initial sweet words have faded. Facing the trivialities of life, don't nag like a broken record, making the home noisy. Men work hard outside, and they need their wives' warmth to relax, care, and consideration. If these needs are not met for a long time, other women will take advantage of the situation. 3. After seven years of marriage, you shouldn't neglect your appearance, running around the house unkempt. Everyone loves beauty. Even though you work hard at home for your husband and children, you may not seem attractive or appealing to him. Basic grooming and dressing appropriately are always necessary. 4: After seven years of marriage, don't assume your husband has to obey you. When conflicts arise, don't always wait for him to appease you. Adjust your mindset and mood promptly, presenting your best self to him. We're no longer in the dating phase; after three to five years, our love has transformed into familial affection. He also wants you to comfort him and make him happy. 5: After seven years of marriage, even if things aren't going well, even if life is difficult, you must always believe that this man can give you the happiness you desire. You chose this path; don't complain or feel wronged. Especially during tough times, your husband needs your support, encouragement, tolerance, and consideration so he has the confidence to create a future together. Second: Men, you need to remember: 1: This woman has been with you for seven years. Perhaps she is no longer young, no longer beautiful, no longer so lively and energetic, but her heart has not changed. She works hard for this family, for the children, and for you every day. In fact, she is very tired and needs your care and love. 2. After seven years of marriage, she may no longer revolve around you all day like before. She has children, housework, and many trivial things to do, and may not care about you as much as before. This doesn't mean she doesn't love you anymore; it simply means, "She has transformed from a girl into a housewife." 3. After seven years of marriage, you are very familiar with each other, and you may have started to neglect communication. Don't say to her, "You don't understand me, you don't get me," as that's incredibly hurtful. Communicate with her immediately about what you're thinking and what you want to do. Discuss things together. You might feel that your wife can't understand you, but your confidante can. The reason is simple: your wife and confidante are on different levels. Perhaps in other men's eyes, "Your wife is also a good confidante." 4. Seven years of marriage. Perhaps you've started to get busy with your career. When you're out socializing, when you're surrounded by other women, please remember to be home before midnight. If you're not home late, she'll worry about you. She'll be waiting for you at home; without you, she'll be scared and unable to sleep. Since you're married, protecting your body is the greatest respect you can show your wife. 5. Seven years of marriage. The only person who can share your hardships is your wife. A mistress can only share your happiness, just like everyone else! Therefore, you must also tolerate her shortcomings, her pettiness, and her capriciousness. Women and men, if we can all be tolerant and considerate of each other, remember our initial sweetness, our vows, and those beautiful moments, then what are the current difficulties? What is the seven-year itch? We have a long road ahead-ten years, twenty years, even fifty years-we can walk it hand in hand.
