A couple's relationship needs careful nurturing to last. So how should couples get along?
A day as husband and wife is worth a hundred days of kindness. Two people enter the hall of marriage together because they love each other, create a new family, and give birth to the fruit of their love. However, if they do not know how to get along with each other after marriage, the road of marriage cannot go on. They can only spend their time arguing, and their feelings will gradually fade away in the arguments, eventually leading to divorce.
Couples should treat each other with sincerity. Only by adhering to this principle can they get along more harmoniously. In the process of getting along as a couple, they should know how to put themselves in each other's shoes and exchange feelings. To put it bluntly, it means understanding each other and knowing each other's hearts so that the other person can feel warmth. When the other person encounters something unpleasant, as their partner, they should know how to comfort them. Even a hug can make the other person feel your presence and give them strength. If there is more blame and belittling at this time, it will make the other person feel very uncomfortable, and when they feel uncomfortable, they will naturally argue.
After marriage, couples may talk less to each other. Before marriage, they had endless topics to discuss and didn't want to be apart. But after marriage, everything seems to change. This is actually a normal phenomenon. After marriage, couples are together face to face every day, so naturally they talk less. So don't always stay silent. Find some trivial things to talk about, or discuss things happening around you, or comment on TV dramas, etc. You don't have to talk only when there's something important to say. The more you talk, the better you can communicate.
If two people have a conflict over something, they shouldn't argue about who is right or wrong. Temporary silence is for calming down. However, even if the two of them are arguing, they shouldn't run away from home. After running away from home, it will be difficult for both of them to recover. Neither of them has the obligation or responsibility to coax the other forever. Therefore, knowing when to stop is the way for couples to get along. After calming down, you may find that it was not such a serious matter and it was not worth arguing about. The conflict will automatically be resolved once you calm down.
The upper lip can't avoid touching the lower lip, so it's normal for couples to argue. Knowing how to resolve conflicts and how to get along is the key to a lasting relationship. Before marriage, both partners may have their own little tempers and personality traits, but these sharp edges should be smoothed out after marriage to make the marriage last longer.
These are some suggestions I have for how couples should get along. I hope you can learn from and adopt them.
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